I try so very hard to find something beautiful to say even in the midst of pain.
I try to be grateful.
I try to be humble.
I failed today.
And that’s okay, but it’s also not, but you can’t flog yourself over the past.
So you get stuck.
In the hurt.
We buried my father today. My rock. My daddy. I feel like he tried to temper my flaws, gave me confidence when I had none, and made me laugh when I thought the world was crumbling.
I didn’t attend the services. I arrived eight minutes late for the family viewing time and by the time I made it into the chapel…
I left and sat in my car.
A lot of people loved my dad. He made everyone feel like he was their best friend. He made everyone feel like part of the group.
And he wasn’t there to make me feel like I belonged.
I’m disappointed in myself because I can hear his voice in my head trying to smooth things over, and he hated when I get emotional.
I resurfaced at the diner, with “Smiley” (one of our favorite waitresses) bringing us pancakes and fried food.