In the early days of exploring how to stop the fire raging in my brain, I mentioned that I firmly expected to be prescribed an SSRI.

The day has come.

I handed it my complex spreadsheet to my shrink-by-proxy, and the surprise on her face said a lot. The doctor had already made his recommendation based on the assesments from last week– so I’m not sure I understand the point of collecting all that data.

He gave me a choice of taking 50 mg of Zoloft for 2 weeks, followed by increasing the dose to 100 mg for two more weeks or doing six weeks at 50 mg.

They are concerned about my scores on the screenings for anxiety and depression.

If we could have ended the appointment there, I would have remained agreeable, even though several of the potential side effects of this drug could make other symptoms worse. Apparently, one common side effect is drowsiness and fatigue, something I currently struggle with due to my history of anemia. And dizziness, great for someone with a history of orthostatic hypotension. It may cause shaking and tremors, and my hands already shake. And it could cause problems with my sleep and sex drive. And I’m a monster if I don’t get my sleep.

But I’m willing to do their experiment…

But I got angry in the appointment and had to hold back my reaction. My practitioner went into therapist mode, and suggested I should be in regular therapy at least once a month. I know and understand my issues, I told her, but I struggle to get past the reaction I have to my triggers. And I told her about how I woke up in a wonderful mood but it quickly disappeared when I saw I got my paycheck. It was exactly what I expected but it still made me anxious and I had to look at all my finances. Yet, I helped my daughter buy a new vacuum without a second thought (because she agreed to pay me back by buying groceries– which I tend to not do because everything is so expensive).

She suggested I make a strict budget and adhere to it because it would make me feel better.

If any of you know me, you know how ridiculous that it. I have lived under a strict budget that goes six weeks out for the last 25 years.

And now I’m angry for the first time in weeks, not frustrated or overwhelmed, but angry.

I don’t know what happens next, but I am feeling a tad misunderstood, which is common in our medical system and I will have to have more patience and wait it out and prove my point with data, not emotions.

No one is even considering that on the four times I took Adderall, all of those symptoms went away, and I slept better than ever.

They won’t consider that until they rule out anxiety disorder and major depressive disorder.