It hasn’t even been a month since my employer eliminated second shift in favor of a seven-day-a-week operating schedule.
It has been about six weeks since my doctor ordered tests to try and pinpoint the cause of my spine, hip and leg pain. And about five weeks since the x-rays revealed a spine, that as my doctor said, wouldn’t be a problem if I were 70 or 80.
My dad died almost three weeks ago.
It has been several weeks since Omicron has soared across the world— and I discovered today, today, that Omicron grows best in nostrils and doesn’t take so well in lungs.
Did I have Omicron before Christmas? When I had stopped taking my allergy meds because of the funeral and had a congested head?
We had ten new cases of Covid at work today. This is the highest count ever. Most of the people who attended my father’s funeral have it. Curly, my college roommate, went home from my house to discover her teenage son had it.
My psychologist tested positive. My trainer did, too. My neighbor did. My other neighbor’s employer did.
It’s been almost two weeks since my neurologist appointment.
It’s been five days since my Hungryroot order shipped.
It’s been four days since my head CT was canceled.
It’s been four days since foster cat Danu went to Pet Supplies Plus.
My grief has heightened my anxiety and has me lost in feelings that I am surrounded by love but I lack enough support. My feelings swirl in my chest and manifest as panic, panic I am too often stuffing away or channeling into tears.
My Hungryroot order came around noon today, after being shipped on Thursday. And the cooling gel pack exploded. Coating all the food. The food arrived bathed in some sticky chemical and warm. I contacted customer service but they warn they are busy and may take 48 hours to get back to me.
And in the meantime, I don’t know if it’s safe to eat the food. At least, the food in packaging. My guess is no. I hope they refund my money. But I ate everything in the pantry over the weekend and now I am out $100 and have no food.
And as I threw items away, I noticed the chicken they shipped me was dated, use by 12/21/21 and they sent it 12/28/21.
Then I got a text from my cat foster godmother: Danu was missing her rabies shot so she had to come home.
Normally I can handle this. But my numbers at work were around 65%, my body pain felt like my bones were burning, and then another member of the cat group sent a long message about how monitoring the medical records of the cats is important.
The vet was supposed to give Danu and all of her kittens the rabies vaccine when they were spayed and neutered. The vet didn’t. I didn’t notice. I screwed up.
Between the medical issues, the family drama, the grieving process and the shift change, I can’t get it life under control.
The second I empty the dishwasher, reload it and run it again, the sink is full. The toilets are dirty. The cats eat the dry food in the gravity feeder as soon as I fill it. The dog keeps eating things.
I’m not sleeping well.
And I have no time left to do anything I enjoy.
So my business plan for Parisian Phoenix is lagging behind.
I pick myself up and look at the positives every day, and every night I fall into bed defeated.
But this too shall pass.