I always wanted a family and I imagined myself surrounded by children, but my life circumstances led to me (and my now separated from husband) bringing one child into the world.
There are several key points in my life that caused a dramatic shift in who I am— she was the first.
In the first few months of her life, I started to see every good and every negative part of my personality. Akin to the experience of most parents, she changed me because suddenly I knew I had more at stake on this earth than my own existence.
She depended on us as her parents, not only for survival, but as role models. And wow— was that reality sobering.
Yesterday her father took her for her learners permit. Covid-19 has delayed some of her plans to start driving.
But now it’s official.
The teenager is now a teen driver. On YouTube: The teen picking me up
Now, her father drives a 2016 Nissan Juke which is like driving a dune buggy. By comparison, my 2015 Jetta turbo is a race car. My daughter smartly recognizes the difference and adjusts her learning plan to best suit each car.
For example, she wants to learn to merge onto the highway in my car before her father’s as she knows if she misjudges, mine will increase speed faster.
Speaking of the highway, she drove me to my mammogram and ultrasound this morning, which involved first experiences not only on Rte. 33, but also Rte. 22 and 378.
She asked me to photograph the experience.
I am so proud of her. And am so glad to share these key moments in her life.